Re-posted from May 25, 2010
ok i have a little bit of time so i'm going to try to update you :o)
we've been home a little over a month now and we've gotten quite a bit done! the state of the house fluctuates because as soon as i get everything put away a few more boxes arrive from korea for me to unpack lol it definitely keeps me busy though and i think we'll only receive a couple more boxes and that'll be that! we'll have all our stuff in one country!
i'm almost done going through all our boxes in storage too. we should hopefully be having a garage sale next month. just have to check with my mom on her work schedule. we'll probably end up having 2-3 garage sales. there's just so much stuff we need to get rid of! after living in korea for 3 years i'm realizing there are a LOT of things i've had since high school (and before!) that i really don't need anymore lol plus my mom is really wanting to down-size on all of her stuff. it'll be good for both of us to purge all this extra junk!
so that's what i've been focusing on lately. it's been like a full-time job so i haven't looked elsewhere for work yet. jens did the written test for the fort worth fire dept. and he thinks he did really well. we find out this week if he passed it and if he can move on to the physical test which will be within a couple weeks. it would be so awesome if he got that! here's hoping! as for me i'm in no hurry to find a job. right now i just wanna get our house in order and help my mom get hers in order, etc. after we're done with all that i'll think about jobs. i can't pin-point exactly what i wanna do. all i know is i'd love to be involved in the local eco-friendly community. i already have a few contacts so that's good. i'm not so much concerned with money as i am with just doing something i really wanna do, ya know?
anyway: here's a reverse culture shock story for you:
the first time we went to the grocery store we just went nuts! we went to kroger and were pleasantly surprised at their selection! of course, we were coming from korea so we weren't hard to please lol some of the differences between korean grocery stores and american are: in korea a store that only has groceries will be fairly small (like the size of a wal-greens or smaller) and most everyone has one within walking distance (which is nice). there are also big grocery stores that have a wider selection but they are 3-4 stories and are more like wal-mart in that they have lots of non-food items also. the first thing that stands out about an american grocery store is you most likely have to drive to it and it has an enormous parking lot out front. the distance from the street to the front door is almost as far as i would walk from my apt. to the grocery store in korea!
in korea there are lockers at the front of the store for extra bags or your dog (if you happen to have it with you). you just put in a 100 weon (or about 10 cent) coin in the slot which enables you to get the key and you get your coin back later when you open it. same goes for the grocery carts- you put a 100 weon coin in to unlock it from the row of carts and you get your coin back later when you put the cart back. now, i dunno why but all the carts i ever used in korea were much nicer than the ones in america. they just seemed better maintained or newer. the ones in america have all seemed really rickety or down-right impossible to use lol they're bigger though!
so- we went into kroger and were automatically mesmerized by the produce section! there's an entire wall of organic produce! including things we can't get in korea at all such as: huge, cheap bunches of cilantro, fresh mint, tarragon, thyme, purple cauliflower, mini cauliflower, nice, big, good-looking bunches of asparagus, cheap green beans, tomatillos, guava, passion fruit, artichokes, limes, texan ruby red grapefruits, and BERRIES! lots and lots of berries! blueberries, raspberries, blackberries (and strawberries- which you CAN get in korea) i have to say though- korea totally wins out on strawberries. the ones we got at kroger unfortunately tasted like cardboard in comparison :o/ we just grabbed wildly and all these wonderful things and then moved on to the organic pre-packaged foods section which was equally awe-inspiring!
there were more kinds of organic cereals at kroger than there are of just regular cereals in korea! koreans don't really seem to be cereal-eating people. they've got corn flakes, green tea corn flakes and chocolate cereal at most places and then 2-3 tesco brand cereals at the big home plus (wal-mart-type store). we immediately grabbed some cinnamon shredded wheat squares that were to DIE for! lol i know that sounds crazy but korea really changes your taste buds lol other foods we were excited about: brown rice (koreans think white rice is superior), basmati rice (have to travel a ways and pay a lot for this in korea), brown basmati rice (non-existent in korea), various kinds of whole wheat pasta! (i think there was one kind in the stores in mokpo), many different kinds of yummy-sounding chips! (no more shrimp or squid flavored chips for me!), tooooons of different kinds of tea...tea that actually sounds good that is! in korea they've got green, black, barley, corn, multi-grain and other boring or gross sounding teas lol
and that was just in the organic section! i think an hour had passed by the time we got to the regular part of the store and another hour or more passed before we were done lol
some other general differences: the aisles are nice and WIDE! i felt like i was constantly bumping into someone or something with my cart in korean stores. they have limited spaces so they have to build up instead of out and everything is really close together. this has resulted in people getting used to bumping into each other so much that they don't even say anything when they do it lol in america we have lots of land so we can build out, space things far apart and rarely bump into each other. when we do we MUST apologize. how dare someone get in our bubble! lol
we have TONS of selection in america. we have 100 different brands of cereal and 5-10 different flavors of each brand! it takes forever just to pick out cereal! although i suppose after you live here a while (or if you've just lived here your whole life) you get to know what there is and what you like and then you can just go straight to what you want and pick it up. but if you're suddenly confronted with more cereal than you know what to do with it's a bit daunting! i would LOVE to plop a korean person in the middle of an american cereal aisle and just watch there reaction lol i have a feeling there would be bugged out eyes and lots of OOOWAAAHHHs! lol
another difference in america is you don't have guys screaming at you through a karaoke mic/speaker about their specials on watermelon or meat or fish! good grief i can't tell you how many times i went downstairs to the food floor at home plus and immediately ran through the produce section to get away from the watermelon man. i had to cover my ears it was so loud! trust me dude- if people want watermelon they will buy it. you don't need to yell at them for them to do so! it's RIGHT THERE when you get off the escalator! i like the very subdued announcements over the pa system they have in american grocery stores. it's very....non-deafening!
i also enjoy being able to buy normal cuts of chicken, fish without bones in it and nice, big fresh shrimp! in korea the butchers randomly hack up chickens so that the pieces are completely unrecognizable, the fish ALWAYS have all the bones in and sometimes the head and eyeballs attached and the shrimp is just not fresh. i think they must have to get it from far away.
we, of course, have many more kinds of bread and bread products since we're a bread-eating country and not much of a rice-eating country. korean people usually just eat bread as a snack. it's always white or white flour based and really fluffy. they're not into whole-wheat or multi-grain or bread with OOMF!
after going through almost the entire store we made it to the cheese aisle! AH glorious cheese! korean people aren't really a cheese culture. they have american slices and "pizza cheese" (which we call plastic cheese) and a few select "fancy" cheeses like expensive brie, camembert and parmesan. and if we were feeling really ambitious we'd take an hour-long bus ride to another town and go to a specific foreign foods store to buy a big block of $20 cheddar lol well those days are gone! we bought about 7 different kinds of cheese while we were there: cheddar (of course!), monterey jack, feta, a blue cheese, provolone, parmesan, and a creamy herb and garlic goat cheese that was my favorite! sooo goood! we were in cheese heaven! lol
after the cheese came the wine and the beer! wines we would pay $15 for in korea were only $5 here! insane! we got a couple bottles of wine and a couple 6-packs of beer. are you wondering if they sell korean beer here? no, they don't. know why? cuz it's awful! lol their most popular beer is called hite but we've taken to calling it shite. we most likely got shiner that day at kroger and maybe something else.
we were finally done shopping and we were super excited about all our purchases including our alcohol! :o) then a man came up to us and said...uuuhhh you know it's against the law to buy alcohol before noon on sunday right? and were like whaaatt? no! (we were still waking up at the crack of dawn at this point...still getting over jet-lag and so we were at the store really early! lol) stupidly we had to put our alcohol back. it's not like we were gonna chug two bottles of wine and two 6-packs and then go to church! lol so dumb!
we went and checked out and were surprised again when we BOTH had to be carded! we were NEVER ONCE carded in korea anywhere, at any time. they're SUPER lenient about alcohol there. you can buy it anywhere, at any time and drink it anywhere at any time. you can walk down the street and drink. you can drink in the park. once i was offered a shot of strong blackberry wine AT SCHOOL at 10am! i drank soju (like vodka) at my korean elementary school after students had gone home almost every wednesday after the teacher's volleyball game with my co-workers! lol totally different culture! anyway, it was a good thing i had my passport with me because i lost of my texas driver's license like two years ago lol
they bagged our groceries, we took them to the car and put them in our nice, spacious trunk! in korea when we had our scooter we had to be careful about how much we bought because we had to fit it all onto the scooter. we got really good at fitting tons of stuff on there though. korean grocery bags are about 3-4 times the size of american ones and they're stronger. we'd fill 2-5 of those, hook a couple on the front floor board and i'd hold the rest and off we'd go! it was fun seeing korean people staring at us with all our groceries piled on the scooter! we've fit a chair, an ironing board, an amp, guitars, the dogs and all sorts of stuff on that thing! we were really sad after it was stolen. then we really had to be careful how much stuff we bought cuz we'd either have to carry it onto the bus or to a taxi.
another little thing about bagging groceries in korea: when you're going through the check-out line you have to tell them how many bags you want and then you have to pay for them (i think it's only like 5-10 cents a bag). i think we should do that in america! i heard they were going to and it fell through or something. the best thing to do of course is to bring your own bags. i can't believe people aren't doing that more now that they're selling them all over the place and we're running out of the oil to produce plastic ones! such a shame! anyway, in korea you have to bag your groceries yourself which i totally don't mind but i hate the fact that they rush you through the line. as soon as they're done scanning your stuff they want you to pay so they can move on to the next person, i've even had them start checking out the next person before i even pay! so you have to really scramble to hurry up and get your stuff in the bags which is pretty nerve-racking. i like being able to take my time!
overall it was an awesome shopping experience and we've really been enjoying all the foods we can buy and make here :o)
until next time!