Random cool things

i found out tonight that one of my co-workers was in the peace corps and taught english in kazakhstan!

also i met a customer tonight that taught english in south korea in the 70s!

pretty cool, eh?

bonus: funny thing overheard in half price-

a young girl talking to her dad saw a book in true crime and said:
hey dad- you should get this book called evil wives so if you're really mad at mom you can read this and then think you are really blessed to have her!

lol kids...

English couchsurfers

we finally had our first couchsurfing guests wed. and thurs. night and it was really fun! if you don't know what couchsurfing is, go to: http://www.couchsurfing.org/

jens couchsurfed at a couple people's places in san marcos in the past month and it went really well so when we got a request from two english girls we accepted! they both just finished university and are taking a huge road trip all over the u.s. and canada for 6 months! it sounds so awesome! i really wish jens and i could do that!

they arrived wed. night and we grilled portobello mushrooms and other veggies for fajitas and they were a hit! we just talked all about their trip, some about our travels and various other random things. it was a good time! after dinner we had some intense chocolate cake that they had brought with tea which they said was the first "proper" cup of tea they had had since being in the states! score one for the rushings lol

we chatted til midnight and then went to bed.

the next morning jens had to leave early for emt school unfortunately but i got up and made a big breakfast of homemade biscuits, scrambled eggs and pepper bacon. it was good if i do say so myself ;o)

the girls went into dallas that day and visited the dallas museum of art. i didn't get to hear how their day went yet because i worked 3-11pm last night and only briefly met up with them after. jens, joel, patrick and selene took them out to potager for dinner and then caves for some beer. i met up with them at caves around 11:30p-12a. they had to get up fairly early today to hit the road again but i stayed out with joel, patrick and selene and we ended up talking to this funny, gregarious guy nicknamed hermes. i also saw two half price books employees up there which was cool! one of them said she goes up there every thursday for the karaoke. jens, joel and patrick did some songs but i much prefer the asian-style private room karaoke lol i don't like singing in front of strangers :oP

we crashed at joel's since we couldn't really drive home and there is of course NO public transit (BOOOO!) and then we had to get up at 6am so i could take selene to her car and she could get home and ready for work by 8:30am! i was REALLY glad i didn't have to work til 3pm today lol i got home and slept til about 10-10:30am. the english had already left and i felt kind of bad that i didn't see them off but i don't think they had much time to chat this morning anyway.

overall our first couchsurfing hosting experience was awesome! the girls were fun to talk to and it was really interesting to meet new people, especially from another country! i would definitely recommend it!

i work again today 3-11pm and i think jens and his band have a gig tonight at the health and harmony house coffee shop near uta. i may try to meet up with them when i get off work but i dunno if they'll still be out. i close sat. and sun. at work also but i have monday off. not sure what my plans are yet.

i'm hoping to do something really fun on sat. april 2 because it'll be my first sat. off since working at half price! woohoo! party time! :o)

ok i'm gonna go get ready for work now! happy friday!

Blogging again

hello! long time no blog, eh? i stopped around thanksgiving because the blog just wasn't going where i wanted it to. i thought i would be writing more about adjusting to life back in texas, etc. but i just couldn't get the motivation to make it super interesting. i'm much better at stream of consciousness writing about my everyday life. so that's what i've decided to do. i've re-arranged the blog a bit. i got rid of the "offbeat texan life" location and just re-posted all of those entries on here. one because my blog wasn't specifically about life in texas and two because i may not always live in texas. i'd rather have a blog i can use throughout my life, ya know?

so i'll briefly summarize what i've been doing for the past 4 months and move on lol

thanksgiving was fun! we spent it with jens's side of the family at his grandparents house and had lots of wonderful food and great company :o)

then the christmas season rolled around and it was pretty crazy! i had completely forgotten what christmas was like here. for the first time in my life i totally understood why people get stressed around that time of year and how they don't like the commercialism of it, etc. it's really in your face! i had gotten a break from it for 3 years in korea because it's quite subdued over there in comparison. here i felt like i needed to buy more and more which was bad because i still didn't have a job :o/ i tried making most of the gifts i gave but i still spent quite a bit. 

overall though it was nice to be home at christmastime and get to spend it with all my friends and family. there were lots of parties and festivities and we had a great time! :o) some of the gifts jens and i made were photo collages, capes for our nephews, pumpkin butter, all natural cleaner and wine charms. it was fun making things so i think i'll try to do that next year too!

new year's eve was a bit weird...jens's band, the small gods, had a gig at the bandwagon in the fort worth stock yards and NO ONE came out except me, joel's gf and david's gf - so they did a show for the 3 gfs lol the employees there only let them play for about 30 mins. since no one else was there so we were "kicked out" before midnight and had to figure out what to do. joel, katie and chris went home which left me, jens, david and his gf who is only 18. we hadn't been under 21 in so long we had no idea where to go so she could get in lol we tried the chat room but they're 21 and up and we only had about 15 minutes til midnight so jens and i stayed there and david and his gf decided to go elsewhere. we felt really bad but there wasn't much we could do. we celebrated new year's with a bunch of strangers but it was pretty fun lol i definitely want to do something better next year though! we need a plan b in case things fall through.

we started 2011 off with a trip to colorado with christopher, lorri and ben and had an awesome time!!! we drove up and stayed about 5 days in jens's aunt and uncle's cabin in winter park. while we were there we sledded down the street, went snow-shoeing, cross-country skiing and sledding on hills. IT WAS SO MUCH FUN! i loved it! i thought it would be deathly cold but it's so dry there that it doesn't feel as cold as texas does in the winter! it was so strange! jens and i liked it so much that we started thinking about living there. i think he's going to test for their fire dept. in june. we'll see! 

when we got back from that trip i re-doubled my efforts to find a job. i was pretty shocked that i still hadn't gotten a job by 2011 and i started to feel pretty discouraged. but i got a couple interviews and was FINALLY offered a job in february at half price books! i couldn't believe it! i had heard from a few people that it's really hard to get a job with them but i did it! it was pretty much the only place that didn't require a degree yet didn't hold it against me that i had one. so many places that i interviewed for that didn't require a degree deemed me over-qualified :o( but half price books sees a degree as a plus which is the way it should be! hello! 

i've been working there for about 7 weeks now and i'm really liking it! it's a great company! i like the people i work with, i like being surrounded by books, i like the variety in the job and they have great benefits! my 8 weeks of training are almost up and then i'll get health insurance and library privileges (meaning i can check out $100 worth of books at a time for one month at a time for free! so awesome!) 

while i LOVE finally having a job it has been quite the adjustment! i considered my job in korea full-time but now i see that it totally wasn't! i pretty much only worked part time there. the other half of my time was spent surfing the internet/sleeping/socializing (and yes i mean AT WORK lol). now i'm REALLY working full time and it's definitely taking its toll. when i'm not at work i just wanna veg out. i've been pretty good about continuing to clean the house/do chores and have a social life but not as good as i would like. i'm wondering how long it'll take me to adjust. 

anyway- update on jens! he graduated fire academy with flying colors!!! he was the captain and valedictorian of his class and got the highest grade anyone has ever gotten at weatherford fire academy!! pretty amazing! i'm super proud of him :o) since then he's been applying to/testing for fire depts. in various parts of texas and the country. and last month (or was it this month) he started emt training online. now he's doing the 1-2 week class portion of that and then he'll start paramedic school this summer. we're really hoping he gets a job before paramedic school starts because it's really expensive and if he's hired the dept. will pay for it! he recently tested in san marcos and is 5th on their list so our fingers are crossed for that!

as much as i would love to move out of dfw or even texas i'm torn because i JUST got this great job at half price books! i knew i would most likely have this dilemma but it's still hard. wherever jens gets a job (as a firefighter) he will definitely make more money than me and maybe have better benefits so it obviously makes sense to move wherever he gets a job. i'll just feel really bad if i have to quit mine. they've been really good to me and it takes of time to train a new employee. we gotta do what we gotta do though!

on another note- i went to two concerts this month! first- lady gaga! which was awesome but i (and my friends) were super far away!!! i'd love to see another one of her concerts with better seats! the very next night i saw devotchka with jens and joel and that was great too! we were only like 20 feet away from the stage- much better view! lol next month we're going to see gogol bordello which will be cool! i've just turned into a concert-going fool! lol i never went to concerts this much before but i am now and it's fun!

i've done quite a few other things in the past four months but i think i've written enough for now lol hope it's not too much to read! i'm going to try to get motivated to clean the house now! we have house guests wed. night which i'll write about later! happy tuesday! :oD

Job search, class, Halloween, garden, Thanksgiving and fire academy!

Re-posted from November 11, 2010

my job-search is on-going...still unemployed.

my class is going pretty well. there was some drama for a while- people complaining about how the class was going, etc. but i think it's finally settled down. there are only 5 classes left and we're starting on our big final projects. we basically have to plan an entire wedding as if we're doing it for a real couple. we have a budget and we have to choose real vendors in the area and use real numbers for the cost of everything. my budget is $30,000 and i'll have 60 guests for a fall wedding. sounds pretty awesome to me!!! :o) i've already been looking up ideas for fall weddings and i've found some cool stuff.

the more i think about event planning the more i think i don't wanna do it full-time. i just like my weekends too much! i like the freedom to plan my OWN events, ya know? i want to be able to plan a big halloween party for my friends rather than for strangers. so i think event planning is either something i'm going to try to do THROUGH another kind of job (like working on a uni. campus) or something i do on the side every now and then.

i'll be glad to be certified though because it certainly can't hurt in the job department. plus i'm learning a ton about event planning that can help me just in the creation of my own events!

halloween:

the friday before halloween we went to a friend of a friend's party and it was fun! jens and i dressed up as japanese people and i finally got to wear my second ukata (summer kimono)! i actually had to watch a video to figure out how to tie the obi (sash) lol

the sat. before halloween we co-hosted a party with some friends of ours and it was really fun too! i dressed up as a female mad hatter and i actually won the costume contest! i gave the prize to the runner up though since i was co-hosting the party lol it was my friend who dressed up as a female sherlock holmes! very cute! jens was mario from the mario brothers and he wore a fake mustache and everything. it was funny!

me and another friend are already talking about next year's halloween! we're thinking of getting a bunch of people together and renting out a place for a masquerade ball! nothing too fancy- the key element would be everyone must wear some type of mask.

i wonder if we could even turn it into some sort of charity party like the halloween party we had in mokpo, korea every year benefiting the local orphanage. we might even get more people to come that way! i really miss that party in korea- so much fun! if we did it here we could raise money for the local shelter! hhmm....

garden:

it's going well! i have 4 buttercup squash growing! i planted onions which won't be ready til next spring, the cabbage and carrots are getting fairly big and the oregano and basil are AWESOME! i've had to give away cuts of basil it was getting so big. i should really freeze some of it for the winter cuz it'll eventually die off but i've been too lazy lol

growing a garden has been so much fun though! it's really rewarding and i would recommend it to anyone who has the space! even just growing some herbs in pots on a windowsill or porch would be fun! the biggest surprise with gardening has been how easy it's been. after the initial work of digging the bed, putting up the fence and putting the seeds in he ground it was a piece of cake! i just water every day and throw some leaves out of the bed and that's it! nature does the rest! i have been lucky though- i haven't had a lot of pests. something was eating my basil for a while but it quit and now i think grasshoppers are eating my cabbage and squash leaves a bit but not too bad. they say you can spray this organic stuff on them called garrett juice but again, i haven't taken the time to make it. you have to get things like manure-based compost tea and seaweed juice....the grasshoppers haven't been too much of a problem yet so i'm going to wait on that.

we have our compost heap going too...not sure if it's the right ratio of "brown" and "green" items or if it has the right moisture level but i'm not too concerned with it lol it's basically just a place to throw my food and yard scraps. if it turns into some awesome compost then great! if not, whatever. it must be fairly rich in nutrients though because i think a squash seed i threw in there started growing! :oD unfortunately i have to stir the heap up every now and then so i dunno if it'll get a good chance to grow but that's cool it sprouted!

thanksgiving:

i can't believe we're almost halfway through november! time has been flying! i'm excited for t-day though! i LOVE all the wonderful fall foods and it'll be great to be home with family this year! my parents work alternating days throughout t-day week so i'm spending the time with jens's family and then i think we're gonna do a christmas decorating dinner with my family later.

fire academy:

i think the reason time has been flying by so quickly is because jens has been in fire academy! it's been keeping us both pretty busy! i do housework all day and when jens gets home he and/or i have to do showers, dinner, ironing, homework, cleanup and bedtime! then every weekend is packed because it's the only time we can do fun stuff together or with friends. he's doing really well in academy though! he was just bumped up to captain of ALL his classmates! :o) pretty awesome!

he's testing for cleburne fire dept. this sat. and i'm hoping he passes! it would be GREAT if he got a job there because they'll pay for his emt and paramedic training. so fingers crossed!

i'm hoping one of us has a job before x-mas so we can actually buy a few things for people. i've been trying to think of things i could make but i can't really think of anything i haven't already done...and i'm not SUPER crafty...like i'm really slow at knitting and i have almost no experience with sewing...

anyway, that's all for now!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

Garage sale, class, job search, social scene, urban planning, etc.

Re-posted from October 11, 2010

wow! a lot has happened in the past month! we had a HUGE garage sale that took days to set up and we made some pretty good money at it!

i also started my event and wedding planner certification course at uta's continuing education building. it's only on monday nights so we've only met twice so far. i've been surprised how much i've learned already. it's not only about learning how to plan events but how to start your own business, getting vendors, dealing with clients, the whole nine yards! and there have been tons of assignments! i can barely keep up but i'm glad to be busy :o)

i've really delved into looking for a job lately. i applied to several event planners and professional organizers as an assistant as well as the library and central market. i'm still waiting to hear back from most of them but i do have one lead on an organizer assistant position.

i just hope i get some kind of job soon because i don't wanna spend all our savings!

jens has been SUPER busy with fire academy! it's taken a while for him (and me for that matter) to adjust to the drastic change in lifestyle but he's doing really well! he's been making great grades on the tests and he was appointed lieutenant of his shift (or group)! so that's exciting! he'll do emt in jan./feb. and then he'll start his paramedic training which may last til nov. of next year. it's a long process to become qualified but it'll be worth it in the end. he may do some substitute teaching during emt training and then ambulance work after that.

as for our social life it's been pretty good but it's been really hard adjusting to the different social scene here. in korea we had one big group of friends. everyone knew everyone and we all had the same job and most of us had the same schedule. so it was super easy to get everyone together not only on weekends but on week nights! for the majority of us our jobs were fairly easy so we weren't too tired to go to dinner on a week night or go camping all weekend. stuff like that.

whereas back home we have various friends who don't all know each other, they all have different jobs and different schedules some of which are super tiring and stressful so it's hard to get people together. i might be able to make plans with one person every two months! granted there are friends of ours that are more available and we see more often and that's great. i just wish i could get more people together, more often. i wish i could call someone up on a wed. night and go to a bar for a drink.

but that's another difference here- things are super spread out! the people AND the business we wanna go to. plus there's no public transit! so it's this huge ordeal to get people to meet at a place (some having to come from far away) and then be able to drink whilst worrying about being sober enough to drive home! korea was so much more conducive to relaxed, fun nights out! everyone lived within 15-20 minutes of each other, they could take a cab all the way across town for about $5-6, there were tons of bars, restaurants, karaoke places, etc. all near each other, there were pedestrian areas to walk around and at the end of the night you could just take a cab home with no problem!

i really, really miss that! that's probably what i miss the most in fact! i wish i could wave a wand and turn DFW into a more compact city with great public transit! lol that would make all the difference in the world! because the longer i'm here the more i realize that there ARE fun things to do in the metroplex, they're all just really spread out. we love the museums, performance halls, theaters, the few bars, etc. there have been arts festivals, beerfests, latino cultural festivals, free concerts, eco-fests, etc. it's just that they're in all different cities and the way the area is set up it's actually kind of difficult to find out about them. you don't have people out and about on foot, mingling, looking at flyers and such. the only way i find out about anything these days is facebook and the internet in general. it's so impersonal :o/ i'm happy that there's stuff going on at all. i'm happy that i can find out about it at all. it's just that i miss that sense of community and closeness and ease of having fun.

jens and i are still thinking about eventually moving to portland or the surrounding area but i don't think it'll be for a while. jens won't even be fully qualified for a firefighter position until the end of next year and then he may need to work for another year to get experience before applying in the n.w. which is fine. i'm happy to stay here and get our careers established before we start to move again. i just need to adjust to the car culture here.

happy halloween if i don't write again before then!

Our garden!

Reposted from September 19, 2010

we started a garden at the beginning of august. i knew nothing about gardening whatsoever so i bought some books, talked to some people, looked stuff up online and then just jumped right in. jens and i tilled a rectangular patch of soil behind our little bungalow. we weren't sure where to put it in order for it to get maximum sunlight and we ended up having to dig the whole thing over again when we realized it needed to be 4 feet closer to the house in order to get more sun lol oops!

let me tell you- it was hard work! we got all the weeds, grass, etc. out, put a wooden frame around it that jens nailed together and then mixed the soil with compost and other soil we had bought. then we put this little white picket fence up around it to keep the dogs out. the fence was pretty dingy and dirty so we decided to paint it some bright cheery colors! grassy green, bright fuchsia and sunny yellow! it took several weeks before we were finally done painting!

around aug. 15th i transplanted our basil and oregano into the garden and planted some winter squash seeds. the herbs flourished but the squash never sprouted! then around sept. 10th (i think it was...) i gave up on the squash and raked down the hills i had formed for them. i planted carrot and cabbage seeds and hoped they would do well.

then we had that day of torrential rains! my garden looked like a pond and i feared my seeds were done for! but that was in fact exactly what they needed! i had sprouts one or two days later INCLUDING the winter squash sprouts which were now all over the garden and not in a neat row since i raked them out lol i transplanted two of the squash sprouts to be near the others and not interfere with the carrots.

all the sprouts have just been getting bigger and bigger and it gives me hope that i might actually grow something edible! woohoo!

i still don't think my garden gets as much sun as it needs because there are so many trees in our yard but the leaves are falling like crazy so maybe the garden will have more light soon enough.

later i'm going to plant onions, garlic and spinach.

we started a compost pile too. we just got some rolled up wire fencing stuff, formed it into a circle and wired it to the side of our fence (so it would stay standing up). then we just started throwing all our produce trash and garden refuse in there, like leaves, etc. you can't put meat, fat or grain products into it i don't think. but you can put paper products in there- used napkins and such. some websites say you have to be careful about the percentage of produce trash to garden refuse you put in but we haven't really been worrying about it too much. it seems to be doing it's thing!

when i'm cooking and i have peelings and bits and pieces of veg. leftover i throw them in a groc. bag in the freezer and once it's full i go out and dump it in the compost pile and kind mix it in with a pitch fork. maybe one day it'll be some really good compost for the garden or yard. it may be a year or more before there's anything usable and we may not even live here anymore but i wanted to go ahead and start it so i could see how to do it, etc. and my parents can continue it after we move.

so that's my gardening adventure so far! it's really exciting to see things sprouting and growing and to think i might actually be able to eat a vegetable i grew myself! i'm doing it all organically too. i won't be spraying pesticides, but there are organic sprays you can make if you have certain bugs, etc.

i'll keep you all updated about how it's going! til next time!

Our birthdays 2010!

Re-posted from September 6, 2010

 my birthday is july 28th and jens's birthday is august 28th...

so this year jens and i decided to have a combined korean- style b-day bash! our friends met us at our house and then we drove WAAAAAY out to some part of dallas where there is a korean restaurant right next to a korean noraebang (karaoke room)! jens and i were super excited to show our friends how we partied in korea! we got a private room in the korean restaurant which was cool but it was different than in korea. first of all it was a table and chairs and you didn't have to sit on the floor, second there were no call buttons on the table so we had to keep getting up and pushing a button on the wall about 10 feet away to get someone to come to our room and let us order something and third they weren't as quick to come to our table as in korea. but overall it was fun!

we ordered dueji galbi for everyone (except the vegetarians who got bibimbap- rice and veg. bowl. galbi is marinated pork you bbq on a grill on your table. in korea dueji galbi always had a sweet brown marinade on it that we love but for some reason at this place in dallas it had a spicy red pepper paste marinade like what would usually be on dak galbi (chicken) in korea....strange but still pretty delicious! one of the waitresses cooked it for us and she was hilarious! lol she just joked with us the whole time and it was really fun. we spoke some korean to her and i think she thought that was funny lol

some other differences were they didn't give us quite as many side dishes as i would have liked. there was a decent amount but i only like about 3 of them. and they didn't serve ANY korean beers! now korean beer IS gross but we just wanted that authentic experience lol we had to settle for the better japanese beer.

the most shocking difference was the price- all my friends who have taught in korea are about to get their minds blown...guess how much a bottle of soju was? (soju is the traditional korean liquor)...$10! TEN FREAKING DOLLARS! in korea it's less than $1! lol the galbi was about $16 a person which is twice as much as most galbi places in korea. needless to say we felt bad for bringing our friends there when it turned out to be so expensive! most everyone were good sports though and didn't complain :o) they all liked the food and had a good time!

after dinner we went next door to the noraebang!!! again it was similar to in korea but slightly different in various ways. first of all it was huge. you go in and there's a very large open room with some tall tables and bar stools and a bar at the back with all kinds of beer and liquor. it's almost like a club. they have a huge tv screen on the wall and you can pay $3 a song to sing karaoke on this stage to your friends as well as strangers. but we went there for the private rooms! we had had to make a reservation ahead of time because this place gets busy on the weekends! so we told them we were there, got drinks and waited a little while for our room to open.

(in korea most noraebangs have a very tiny room when you go in with a counter where you pay and 99% of the time we haven't had to reserve or wait for a room. we did once in a seoul at this really popular place but that was the only time. usually you walk in, tell them how many people, pay and go straight to a private room.)

so- back to the american noraebang- our private room was awesome! it was almost the same as in korea but it had much bigger, nicer and comfier leather chairs to sit in, one ENGLISH remote control lol, and a button by the door to call a waiter if you wanna order drinks or food. the song books were exactly the same as in korea though! they had korean, japanese and english songs in there and they pretty much didn't have many more english songs than they do in korea. that was kinda weird cuz i thought on their website there were more. i think they encourage you to look at the song lists online and make a list of the songs and numbers you want before you go. but we of course did not do that lol everyone found plenty of songs they liked though! it was so fun noraebanging with our texas friends for the first time!!! (ben and viv were there and they've been to korea but the rest hadn't.) i was really glad that most everyone wasn't afraid to sing. it was also really fun for me because my cousin catherine was there and she and i hadn't gotten to hang out in forever!!! (she was visiting from virginia).

i had set up a tab at the bar and jens just kept calling the guy in to order drinks. well when we left i had quite a shock! i went to the bar to pay and the guy goes...did YOU have 10 shiners??? i was like no! that must have been my husband! and he was like- ok cuz i thought- she should be falling on the floor right now! lol i don't think i'll do a tab there again because jens went a little overboard! i think he must have given some of those beers to other people cuz there's no way he would have been standing after 10 lol

overall, it was a great birthday night! i was so happy so many of our friends could come out and have a korean-style party with us! it definitely made me miss certain things about korea! like the cheap galbi and being able to drink whatever and not worry about driving home because there were taxis. siiighhh...

in conclusion i don't think i'd go to that korean restaurant again but i'd definitely go to that noraebang. the prices were comparable to korea and it was super fun!

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like i said jens and i had decided to have a COMBINED b-day party. this was HIS idea. he didn't want his OWN b-day party but when sat., august 28th rolled around suddenly he did! lol it was mainly because we happened to not have any plans on a sat. night so he was like- hey, why don't i have a b-day party? surprisingly (and luckily) a lot of our friends didn't have plans that night either! so we cleaned the house and gathered up some snacks and everyone came over around 7 i think. at the last minute we told everyone to wear some kind of WACKY clothing lol most people didn't dress wacky enough so i let them borrow some of my wacky accessories. i didn't realize til that night that most people don't have a stash of wacky accessories lol ya know like sombrero hats, giant glasses and boas. we snacked, talked, took pics, played "beerminton", danced the night away and listened to joel philosophize intensely while drunk lol it was a good night! i'm glad jens had a b-day party after all :o)

so we're both one year older and it feels pretty weird. i'm 27 and he's 28...that's almost 30! we don't feel almost 30...but i guess that's a good thing! FOREVER YOUNG!